Also found this http://marketplace.publicradio.org/standard/display/slideshow.php?ftr_id=60233
Reading that article again, I recall why I think that the mylife.com Avis and Jeff are the right people. The article mentions that Jeff previously worked at Microsoft, that he is in his late 50s, and that at the time the article was written were living in Encinitas, California.
The mylife.com summary for both Avis Durgan and Jeff Stephenson has this list of places lived:
San Diego, CA
Redmond, WA
Encinitas, CA
Seattle, WA
Both Redmond and Seattle are linked with Microsoft. Encinitas is in the list, and San Diego is very close to Encinitas. The age mylife.com gives from Jeff is 59, which is late 50s. So everything seems to match up.
It is amazing what is on the net these days. I found this web site just by searching for the right combination of keywords:
http://www.ussearch.com/consumer/criminal-records/names/ca+san+diego/jeff/stephenson/002430043751.htmlIf you hover over the address history View More link, you get a list of all known towns/cities. The list not only includes those locations listed above but also Oakhurst and Coarsegold, both names associated with Sierra-on-line, and presumably the places names in between are everywhere he has been between his time at Sierra and his time at Microsoft.
San Diego, CA
Encinitas, CA
Redmond, WA
Bellevue, WA
Seattle, WA
Chapel Hill, NC
Durham, NC
Carrboro, NC
Ahwahnee, CA
Oakhurst, CA
Coarsegold, CA
And if we use the same web site to search for Avis Durgan, then all of the same places above appear for her, everything that is except for Oakhurst and Coarsegold.
Apparently Jeff's full name is Jeffrey Alan Stephenson if we can believe that web site.
You know what, I just realised that mylife.com has probably automatically created the pages for Jeff and Avis based on publicly available information such as what appears on the one I mentioned above. So my email has possibly gone to an inbox that no one is checking.